Why do we cry?

Everybody has cried in his\her life.Have u ever thought,why do people cry?It's an emancipation of one's state of mind.It is not just in pain but even in happiness that a man cries.It leaves a person mentally and emotionally relaxed.
It is a natural process.It is one of the intrinsic way to express one's feeling.It is the language of the world.Language that every body on this world understands.For a baby who does not know how to speak,crying is the language used by him to express himself to the world.If the power of crying is taken away from him he will not be able to survive.
Though one may ask as to why i am talking about crying.As i told u ,yesterday i attended a marraige.I saw the bridegroom's relatives crying when their girl was leaving.Though she is not leaving them and she will always be in touch with them.But at that time they are not thinking with their minds but their hearts.When a person is crying,he/she is thinking by his heart.
But still I believe, "MEN DO NOT CRY" in open.C ya

Two souls united

Hi
Marraige.A word that brings a feeling of responsibility to one's mind and a burden to some.For some it may be fun, as one of my wise friend always says,"It's all in the mind".
But i think everybody will unequivocally agree with my point that it is an opportunity to mingle with people and enjoy the greenary.And a good reason to buy new clothes,atleast for me.It converges people from their busy schedule to a common point.
Yesterday i went for a marraige.It was an IITian marrying an IITian. On this occasion I met a guy after 10 yrs.It was a good feeling to meet people with whom you have played in childhood and find them completely changed and excelling in their respective field.That bought the good old childhood memories back to my mind.
Similar to my profession, the bridegroom was also working in a s/w MNC,Oracle.Her friends were there in the marriage with their laptops,the favourite gadget of s/w professionals.It reminded me of my office and brought the contemporary thoughts to my mind.The pressure of projects and the mast maujja attitude of childhood.
Now the fun part.I met one of my friend in the marraige.Though one may argue that it is nothing unusual. But there is an irony associated with that.Whenever I go for an outing I meets someone known to me,one who is not expected to meet at that time,at that point.It happens most of the time.I would say 90% of the time.
Net net,i enjoyed the marriage,an arrangement to combine two souls, which will now become one soul .Ok bye for now.My friend pinging me for lunch,Byeeeeeee.

Kissa Shilpa Shetty ki kiss ka

Once again a debate on a kiss and public display of love.India is a hub of so many problems and still we waste our resources and energy in such pity things.India is a land of Kamasutra and Kharujao and a kiss starts a new discussion among people.Indians always had a propensity towards sex.In fact every cosmopolitan will have and it is natural otherwise this world would will not exist.Though someone may argue that it can exist with testtube babies but i would still say, we have a long way to reach that place.
Hindus always had been open to thoughts on sex.Look at Mahabarata where Kauravs were 100's in number.Though someone might argue that it was because of different vardans but still it puts light on the psyche of our forefathers.
But i think we are improving.Now since childhood most study in coed schools and they are more open, so the situation will change.Rather than wasting our resources and energy on these pity incidents we should reinforce our energy on spreading awareness on issues like Aids, which originally Ms Shetty was suppose to do.Recently i read an article that the AP govt is planning to make Aids test mandatory before marraige.This is a positive and i would say a bold move by any state government which will help India in fighting a menace like AIDS in this competitive era of globalization.
So let us not waste our energy on these kisses and get back to our work, to make India a super power which is fully capable to tackle the problems like AIDS in this globalized world.

Marraige of scions

Once again many hearts were broken when the Ash and Abhi tied knote on 20th may,07.It has been a long journey for Ash.She was and in fact she is the heartthrob of the young indians.In fact she is the heartthrob of old also.Why i said that? You guessed it right.Sallu is 40+ and by no way he is young.If he looks young it is because we have only seen him in movies with all that makeup and in the bright lights of camera.
The other lover was Vivek Oberoi.Bechara,i would say.He took fight with sallu for her but she left him .I knew it.He could not handle the charisma,energy and spark of a lady like Ash.Even the height.She required someone tall like Abhishek.
Now the Ms Rai has become Ms Bachan.Recently she signed as Mrs Bachan on her visit to tirupati.Contrary to what many might have thought,and contrary to what Jayaji did,she will continue to work in Bollywood.This is what Amitji has said,as of now.
Lets hope Abhishek keep the hearthrob of young and old Indians happy,though his father was not the best at that.Chalo.Bye for now.

Few qoutes read by datt sahab recently

"Small minds discuss people,average minds discuss event and great minds discuss ideas"-Anonymous

"There is enough for everbody's need but not enough for anybody's greed"-Gandhi ji

Key to getting ahead is to get started-I donoo who said it.

Alchemist

It is a story of a young sheperd.How in search of a treasure, he meets an Alchemist who guides him like a Krishan in Geeta to attain true treasure of life.It is a small,simple philosophy book for beginners.

qoutes from the book

"When you want something,all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it"
"Maktub" -'It is written'
"Never Stop Dreaming"
"Folow the omens"
"Darkest hour of the night just came before the dawn "

if one reads it he/she can find answers to
who is an alchemist?
what is the soul of world?
is there a language that everybody understands in this world?

Power Of Positive Thinking

Hi all
"The Power Of Positive Thinking" -By Norman Vincent Peale, is a book with a lot of examples to show a person the power of positive thing.The author takes Bible as reference but if you have read Geeta(Hindu Mythology) u will find that all religion teach the same and there core is the same.As in computer programming.The logic remains the same even if one may code in different languages.

If somebody doesn't understand english he/she can go for Geeta which he/she can find in the regional languages of India.

Though one might think that ,things that it talks about ,every normal person knows it, but it will be a learning experience and leave a +ve mark on your mind and will clear your concepts .
Book talks, how faith in God helps and how the God can be made a partner in one's life.Everybody will find atleast one example with which he/she can correlate.
My suggestion will be to read this book slowly and try to absorb what it says.
It says what our Geeta says emphatically and we Indians have been hearing it 4 long and is an old adage
" karam kar aur fhal ki eecchaa mut kaar "
Unique Selling Point USP of this book is the examples it has.
If u find that it is too much philosophy and decide to leave it in between, my suggestion will be to atleast read the name of chapters.
Few takeaways
Have faith in yourself and do your 100% and leave rest to God.
Visualize a positive picture in your mind and see yourself accomplishing what u r planning to acccomplish.Your probability to achieve that increases.-"Expect the Best and Get the Best"
Never say that you have got more than what u deserve.
Remove hatred and anger as it puts the energy of the person in wrong slots.
Remove -ve thoughts and fill your mind with +ve thoughts.

PS:-If u find them to be well known things but not easy to practice,than read the book. It will help.