BOY BABY
Hi guys
This is about the general propensity of most Indians families towards male child.I don't know about the other countries but most middle class, married ,Indian couples want atleast one male child.And the irony is that they don't just belong to the illiterate category,but are well educated families .
Though the situation is not that dismal but still we have a notion of Ek Ladka Tau Hona He Caaheeia.One might think that why is this happy,unmarried boy talking of a child.Yesterday one of my maternal relative conceived a male child.Everybody was so happy when the NEWS spread out.She already had two sweet girls,but the entry of new male member brought ecstasy to the old family members.Though i am questioning this, but at one point I was also happy for the entry of a new male child.
And,the other irony is that, females in the family are all the more inclined to the notion of male child.The situation becomes all the more alarming if we spread the ideas like "ONE IS FUN".
Effects of male child philosophy were not that visible in old days because at that time we did not had the problem of population explosion,but in today's scenario it can have some really bad effects.
Finally,being positive,as i am always,hopefully we will over come this problem.
Waiting to see some good comments from my friends and sharing any information they have about other cultures in world.And, do people in other part of the world also have reservation for a specific sex.Bye...
This is about the general propensity of most Indians families towards male child.I don't know about the other countries but most middle class, married ,Indian couples want atleast one male child.And the irony is that they don't just belong to the illiterate category,but are well educated families .
Though the situation is not that dismal but still we have a notion of Ek Ladka Tau Hona He Caaheeia.One might think that why is this happy,unmarried boy talking of a child.Yesterday one of my maternal relative conceived a male child.Everybody was so happy when the NEWS spread out.She already had two sweet girls,but the entry of new male member brought ecstasy to the old family members.Though i am questioning this, but at one point I was also happy for the entry of a new male child.
And,the other irony is that, females in the family are all the more inclined to the notion of male child.The situation becomes all the more alarming if we spread the ideas like "ONE IS FUN".
Effects of male child philosophy were not that visible in old days because at that time we did not had the problem of population explosion,but in today's scenario it can have some really bad effects.
Finally,being positive,as i am always,hopefully we will over come this problem.
Waiting to see some good comments from my friends and sharing any information they have about other cultures in world.And, do people in other part of the world also have reservation for a specific sex.Bye...
3 Comments:
A nice one agn.....
Probably its the old school of thought that make Indians believe so.. :(
ANyways.. I guess slowly slowly as India develops n' girls proving themselves in nearly all fields including the Army, as combatants n' fighter pilots.. we'll be able to overcome this..
Well written n' keep writing :):)
Thnaks
Dhruv the Gr8...
not really true i guess, one could be fun but everyone wants a boy (as far as i know). even u wud want a boy once u become a father dude, u do want ur name to be carried forward...
i respect girls & guys and consider them equal, but both baby boy & baby girl are equally imp. So one each is real fun ;-)
Rahul
Hi deepak,
I think this is common scenario nowadays. But i will think it will soon be washed away as girls are progressing at a tremendous pace.They have taken over boys in every field and soon they will overcome this myth too...........
A nice argument.......
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